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The Child Who Has Everything

By Mark Shead 5 Comments

On the front page of Amazon I saw a list of items that said they were for “the child who had everything”. While there were some very interesting toys, I got to thinking about that designation. It definitely isn’t how I want my child described.

Every parent wants to give their kids nice things and most parents try to give their kids things that they didn’t have growing up. This isn’t always a good thing. I’m not saying it is a bad idea to help your kids obtain a better education than what you received, but when the only thing your kid doesn’t have is a $10,000 replica space suit you’ve got to question how well you are preparing them for the real world.

A lot of my views on money were shaped by the fact that my parents weren’t wealthy. In fact we were probably living below the poverty line (although we didn’t realize it). They provided everything we needed, but we didn’t even think about asking them to buy us “extras”. When I wanted a camera for a high school photography class, I worked and saved until I had the money to buy it. When I wanted a laptop I did the same thing. My parents taught me to focus on opportunity instead of lack.

Since most of the money I was spending was my own hard earned cash, I was much more careful about how it was spent. I still tend to do this today–sometimes to a fault. (How much time should you really spend trying to pick out the best $0.97 toothbrush?)

My parents provided the opportunity to work, so we could get the things we wanted. As soon as I was able to drive at 14, my brother and I started using family truck, lawnmower, and weed eater to earn money during the summers. We didn’t get paid for doing our own lawn–that was just part of being in the family. But there were always plenty of other people who needed their lawns mowed.

My parents provided us with the support and encouragement to work hard. No one would have described us asĀ  “kids who had everything”, but what my parents gave us was much more valuable.

Filed Under: Misc Tagged With: finances

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  1. infmom says

    October 4, 2007 at 5:48 pm

    I wish there were some cosmic law that would mandate that everyone spend at least one full year being absolutely dirt poor, at an age when it would make a permanent impression.

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  2. Mark Shead says

    October 4, 2007 at 9:21 pm

    @infmom – I like that idea. Some countries have mandatory military service. Maybe we should have mandatory poverty for a year. It would be interesting to see what type of changes would occur if that were the case.

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  3. A Morgan says

    October 10, 2007 at 12:28 pm

    Sitting prominently on my desk is a photo of my toddler having the time of her life playing in a box. Just a simple box that my sister shipped some hand-me-down clothes in.

    She doesn’t need fancy toys with batteries, or authentic reproductions of stuff to play – she has an imagination, and that will serve her better in her life than any working scale model Hummer will.

    We don’t need to mandate poverty, but perhaps if we could mandate common sense…

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  4. Barnerom says

    August 29, 2010 at 4:27 pm

    The simpler toys are just as rewarding and may be just as popular as all these modern stuff. Personally I fancy getting my chilldren wooden toys, and seek ouy stuff I personally had a great joy of in my childhood – of couse very much is old fashion these these days – but then again – it’s not obvious that a little child will choose the newer….

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    • Mark Shead says

      August 30, 2010 at 9:16 am

      My toddler’s favorite toy right now is a 1 cup metal measuring cup that doesn’t have a handle. :)

      Reply

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