The Habit of Lateness
April 9, 2007 · Print This Article

When I was in college, my roommate had a very difficult time getting up in the morning, so he was often running late. To help get to class on time, he set his clock ahead about 5 minutes. This worked well for about a week.
It took about 7 days for him to get use to the idea that the clock was
set ahead and it started losing its effectiveness. No big deal. He
just bumped it another two minutes forward and he started being on time
again…for about a week.
I was sitting at my desk reviewing some notes for my next class at 1:50. I stood up to grab a book off the book shelf and something just didn’t seem right. It took me realize that I had seen a clock out of the corner of my eye. As I looked back I saw 1:51. Now to many people this might not seem like a big deal, but I just wasn’t someone who came to class late. To make it worse. This particular class was with a professor that had hired me to tutor others in music theory. Being late to class was a big deal because it would reflect poorly on me as a tutor.
I scrambled to grab my books and ran down the hallway, down five flights of stairs, across the campus and into the music building. I ran down the hall to the class room hoping to slip in with minimal attention, but when I looked through the door there was no one there. The lights were off and the room was empty. No students, no teacher, no note explaining… nothing.
Now this is the point where many people would have probably thought, “Cool no class today!” but this particular professor had a sense of humor that I had seen him use several times. For example, if a student fell asleep in class, he would continue talking in the same voice and try to get the rest of the class to quietly get up and leave the room without disturbing the sleeping student. The class would continue in another room or the lobby and the sleeper would wake up with no idea where everyone had gone.
I looked around to see if anyone was hiding in a nearby classroom. No luck. As I headed back to the lobby, I saw the clock. It was 1:37. I waited around for 13 minutes for class.
My roommate kept moving the clock forward and every time he started getting use to it, he would move it ahead a few more minutes. I had just happened to look at his clock instead of mine because of where I was standing. The clock was a full 15 or 16 minutes ahead.
Now this is a trick that I’ve heard people recommend. Just set your clock ahead so you get places on time. The problem is that being late is a habit and simply moving the clock forward doesn’t actually break the habit. In fact, it will make it worse. If you can’t seem to get places on time, don’t set your clocks forward. Move back the deadline. So if you have a meeting at 2:30, set a deadline for yourself of 2:25. Once you get to where you are consistently getting places 5 minutes ahead you’ll have broken the habit of lateness.
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Good stuff! I like Laura Stack’s perspective of arriving- be an “early arriver” as opposed to an “on-timer” or even worse, a “late”. Arriving early decreases stress and let’s establishes yourself as a player at the table, not just a spectator.
Mark, Really good advice. I hadn’t thought about the fact that moving your clock forward actually only deals with the symptom not the problem. One thing about being early is that you leave extra time in case “something” comes up.
When I was commuting to 8 a.m. classes, I quickly realized that if I arrived 20 minutes before class, I had my pick of parking spots, could easily get coffee, relieve myself, and be sitting in the classroom before anyone arrived. I am not a morning person, but it was a good habit and worked well.
It always feels a little weird to read a blog and feel like they’re talking about you, but then, I really was that roommate with the clock turned forward. Mark and I were like brothers. He was early and I was late. Looking back I didn’t realize how far I’d turned it. Now, thanks to cell phone technology, my watch (my cell) is right on time! Though I have found that living less than a block from work has developed a new lateness habit–I know it only takes 2 minutes to get there so I leave right about the time I’m supposed to be there. That hasn’t helped the whole lateness thing, for sure. However, after reading this blog, I’m convinced of my need to change my ways. So, I’m moving three miles away and aspiring to be where I need to be early and on time, no longer late!
Perhaps I can blog about this new experience someday!
Thanks for the good advice, Mark!