Other’s Preceptions - Are You a Threat?
September 6, 2007 · Print This Article
Last week we looked at how other’s perception of our actions is often more important that our intentions. One of the questions to ask yourself is: “Does this person see me or my actions as a threat?”
Years ago I was a young manager at a large non-profit organization. About two years into my job I started noticing an unusual amount of resistance from one of the vice presidents. It got to the point where it seemed any decision I made would result in him expending a great amount of effort to get overturned. It got to the point where it almost seemed silly. I couldn’t figure out what was going on.
Eventually I spoke with a much wiser retiree who was familiar with the organizational structure. He explained that my problem was that the VP felt extremely threatened by me. This came as quite a shock to me because I had never even considered that this was a possibility. However, as I really looked at the situation it made a lot more sense.
Over the past 5 years the VP hadn’t really accomplished much. In fact most of the large projects he had been put in charge of either never got off the ground or were failing miserably. Some of his projects had gone so far over budget that the CFO was very concerned about giving him any more leeway. I had come in and had a string of successes with some larger and larger scale projects. Many of these projects saved a tremendous amount of money. The CFO liked what I was doing so it was very easy to get funding for pretty much anything I felt like we needed to do.
I’d like to say that understanding the VP’s motivations helped me to succeed in that environment, but I can’t. By the time I realized what was going on I had decided that if I wanted to control my career I needed to be in business for myself. I’m very glad I moved on, but I regret that I didn’t learn early on how I was being perceived by this individual.
So if you had realised sooner how he perceived you, what would you have done differently?
@Catherine - Good question. I think just being aware of the situation would have helped a lot. One thing I would have done is actively tried to get his buy in on some of the things I was trying to do. As it was I reported up through a different chain of command, so I didn’t really involve the VP in what I was doing. On the soft side of things I might have even tried to steer him toward some of the things I was trying to accomplish in a way that would make him think that it was his idea.
This is a good post about something that underpins politics in any organization. I’ve been deemed a threat and found myself looking for an out because the politics got too terrible.
It is worth reminding myself on a regular basis, in fact just recently this came to the forefront. Now it is making a project difficult to complete.
Does it change who I am? No. Does it diminish what I offer to an organization? No. Does it alter who I might work with and why? Yes.